The reason we search for answers to the most chaotic reasons behind life is because we are filled with grief, regret, impossible journeys and bad decisions. The problem is most of us dwell on this rather than the good in our lives. We feel the need to tear apart the struggles, understand that meaning when all the while we are forgetting one thing:
IN THE MOMENT
I am the biggest factor in this story because I do this all the time. I focus on the bad instead what could be good in my life. I can tell you this is not an easy task, trying to change my way of thinking. Self destruction is a main ingredient to Mental Health issues and we are constantly in battle with ourselves.
People don’t help the situation, some blurt out words that can render us further into the hole. It isn’t until someone points out the positive that we may see the light.
FRIENDSHIPS
There is however, always that one or two friends that can deepen our connection with life and make us realize, life is short and we must continue the growth to a better lifestyle. Our siblings, our children and the people around us need our support and maybe that’s the focus.
I personal try very hard to stay strong for my son as he is in constant battle with his lifestyle. He has people around him that want to do him wrong and I can say, finding the right words is tricky. My heart breaks when he is in difficulty and some might say by me covering the reality might not be the best answer but I feel is it my duty as a mother to salvage his growth.
Today, we seek truth in people, we see their truth and decide whether they are worth our time and understanding. Those who would harm us are filled with anger and issues of their own but in the end, they do come around and realize the damage they have done. That trigger is the key to life’s chaos.
don’t forget: be unconditional
